the complication of life....

relationships.. haih... it is not a fairytale.. how we all imagine it to be..
the rainbows and what not flowers and chocolates..
candy's and etc... how i wish for it to be it...
but at the end of it all it is not...

there are those who treat the opposite sex as if they are an object
and there are those that treat the opposite sex as their world
and there also those who treat the opposite sex as slaves...

how do we know who is the right one for us????
how do we know that that's the person we want????
how do we know how to make the right decision ????
how do we know that the move that we make i right????

Now i am confused as i am not sure of what i want or need.... and i don't know whether i have made the right decision ... how would i know... i want to be able to make the right choice..